The "f" word I am referring to is "future". What were you thinking? Let's face it, most of us put off planning for the future. Why do today what you can do tomorrow, right? Well something recently caught my attention that I'd like to share with you, because I think everyone needs to plan for what's ahead.
I was approached last week by my sister-in-law, who gave me the incredible honor of becoming the godmother of my baby niece, Lillian. She and her husband we getting ready to take a trip and wanted to know that their wishes would be honored if something were to happen.
What about your wishes? Many people--especially seniors--are confused about writing their wills and may not even be able to tell you what an Advanced Directive is or why having one is important.
Here are the basic points for navigating these important documents.
Advanced Directives:
  • A living will is a legal document that enables you to declare your wishes to receive or to have withheld life support procedures when permanently unconscious or terminally ill and unable to make informed decisions. Living wills also are referred to, in some states, as a health care declaration or health care directive. A good example of why it is so important to have this document in place is the Terri Schiavo case.
  • A durable power of attorney (POA) for health care is a legal document in which you designate a trusted individual—your "agent"—to make medical decisions for you when you are unable. Do not confuse this with a financial power of attorney, which authorizes someone to make financial decisions for you when you are incapacitated. The POA can grant broad or specific powers to the agent. In your POA you can specify the treatments you would or would not want to receive.
  • A do not resuscitate (DNR) order sometimes supplements advance health care directives. Placed in a patient's medical chart, a DNR is usually used by people who are already critically ill and feel strongly against use of life-prolonging measures.

Now it is not my intention to give anybody legal advice, but to jump start your thoughts on these issues. For more information, a great resource is the American Bar Association's page on frequently asked questions about estate planning.

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Comment by Jenny Busing on September 7, 2010 at 6:48pm
Ditto Jason! But with Ashley's witty personality - I knew it would be a clever spin.
Comment by Jason Northington on September 7, 2010 at 8:02am
I was pulled in by the "F" word but I stayed for the education - sweet post Ash.

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