Midlife is a crossroads... the path leads to the murky depths of depression which ends in taking solace in chocolate and shopping sprees or the path can lead to an inspirational launch into a new stage of womanhood where a new identity emerges from the chrysalis of our youth. Now into my midlife, I find myself recently divorced and awakening from what I thought would become a crisis.  Luckily, my divorce was what i would term a happy one since it did not involve children or loss of home or…